{"id":15768,"date":"2024-09-12T16:55:34","date_gmt":"2024-09-12T23:55:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.orthodoxytoday.org\/blog\/?p=15768"},"modified":"2025-01-21T15:36:13","modified_gmt":"2025-01-21T23:36:13","slug":"each-of-us-bears-responsibility-for-our-own-choice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.orthodoxytoday.org\/blog\/2024\/09\/each-of-us-bears-responsibility-for-our-own-choice\/","title":{"rendered":"Each of Us Bears Responsibility for Our Own Choice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.orthodoxytoday.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Fr_Andrey_Lemeshonok_02_900x507.jpg\" alt=\"Each of Us Bears Responsibility for Our Own Choice\" width=\"900\" height=\"507\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-15769\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.orthodoxytoday.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Fr_Andrey_Lemeshonok_02_900x507.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.orthodoxytoday.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Fr_Andrey_Lemeshonok_02_900x507-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.orthodoxytoday.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Fr_Andrey_Lemeshonok_02_900x507-768x433.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/>by Fr. Andrey Lemeshonok &#8211;<br \/>\nThe drama of this world, which has decided to live without God, is unfolding before our very eyes. The world of sin is gaining momentum, destroying the concepts of holiness, homeland, responsibility, and family\u2014the fundamental concepts without which life would have, until recently, seemed impossible. <!--more--> <\/p>\n<p><strong>And to survive in this world, you have to have some support.<\/strong> The more complicated the circumstances around us, the stronger we must cling to Christ and learn to live according to the rules of the Holy Orthodox Church. When a man eases up, when he falls into the stream, into the crowd, he ceases to control himself, yet becomes part of this crowd. And where are the people going\u2014to repent, to go on pilgrimage, to do something good? Or do they themselves not know where the world is leading them?<\/p>\n<p>How quickly everything changes. Church people say today: \u201cMy children don\u2019t keep the fasts, but at least they didn\u2019t eat candy\u2014and thank God for that.\u201d But at the time when I came to the faith, there simply could not have been such conversations among the Orthodox.<\/p>\n<p>This world accustoms us to thinking differently, to different values, and we put our \u201cI\u201d and our desires ahead. That is why the life of the holy fathers\u2014St. John Climacus, Abba Dorotheos\u2014bewilders us. Their faith and ascetic way of life doesn\u2019t fit into our minds. Today, it\u2019s impossible to tell someone: \u201cLeave your arguments and opinions and listen to me;\u201d \u201cNo one\u2019s asking you your opinion\u2014do as they say.\u201d This is immediately perceived as terror and a mockery of the individual. So we have to say: \u201cDo as you please; God help you, sister.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Today all ties built on respect for elders, obedience, humility, and not to mention love, are being severed.<\/strong> The world is doing everything it can to depersonalize a man, to make him part of the crowd that isn\u2019t being led by the bright spirits and certainly isn\u2019t being led to the Kingdom of Heaven. I am not speaking on the scale of our country or even Holy Rus\u2019, but on a global scale, which is now entangled in that web. <\/p>\n<p>Even first graders have phones, and there he learns how to build relationships with parents and teachers. And this can\u2019t but enter into the Church. After all, people from the world come into the Church with their experience, values, and concepts, and many believe their experience is more progressive. Supposedly a new age has come\u2014the age of reason and progress, when many important things are called into question. Even the Divine Liturgy\u2014the Mystical Supper, Christ, Who communes His disciples and leads them to a new, eternal life\u2014is called into question. That\u2019s scary!<\/p>\n<p>To build a monastery in this world is the ultimate madness. But God gives grace and we accept it. And God\u2019s grace changes us, who are infected with sin. Such unity in God is a miracle of God\u2019s love. And we are talking about holiness, faithfulness, purity, beauty\u2014about God, Who, despite all human efforts, holds this world in His hands. <\/p>\n<p>The Lord has conquered the prince of this world and wants us to live by this victory. Each of us bears responsibility for our choice of where to go and who to follow. And Christians need to think even more carefully and look for where Christ is and where He simply cannot be.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s very important to keep the faith.<\/strong> Christ is and will be in our midst, although the world tries everything it can to deprive us of communion with God, to break the connection of the soul with God, and to bury the soul forever. Forever. And it succeeds. There is a battle on for every person, every soul. And it escalates. That is why it is so difficult to get through to young people and open their eyes\u2014because they have been taught that they know more, that they understand better.<\/p>\n<p>Remember how the Soviet Union collapsed with lightning speed; it was the same with the mighty Russian Empire, which our ancestors had built up for centuries. How much blood was spilled to build such an empire! And then it collapsed overnight. Everything occurs much faster now. It\u2019s enough to push a button and everyone will know where to go, how to behave. And, unfortunately, people have confidence in this. <\/p>\n<p>But who is speaking and why\u2014they don\u2019t even think about this anymore. Therefore, we have to have our own \u201cinternet\u201d\u2014prayer for one another, meaning our connection with one another through God. And if we lose this connection, then, of course, we will go the wrong way.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014<br \/>\nExcerpts from <a href=\"https:\/\/orthochristian.com\/137098.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Orthodox Christianity<\/a> article. <em>(Bolding of key words and phrases, and some minor content organizational changes made by blog editors to improve readability.)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Fr. Andrey Lemeshonok &#8211; The drama of this world, which has decided to live without God, is unfolding before our very eyes. 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